I really love roses. One of the great things about summer... even when it's blazing hot outside like it is this today, the roses are still blooming like crazy.
I try to always have a bouquet of roses in the house, whether they're from
our yard or I'm fortunate enough to receive them from the man in my life.
For me, they are such a beautiful reminder of the celebration of love.
A big key in manifesting love in your life is that you first have to give yourself the love you deserve and desire, before you can attract it in a partner and relationship.
Our lives and relationships are just a mirror for what's going on inside of us. So if you value yourself and your desires, your life and your relationships will reflect back to you everything you desire.
Unfortunately, the reverse is true as well. If you're not valuing yourself and your desires, that will be reflected as well. I've written extensively about the importance of loving and valuing yourself.
But it's also important to get really clear about what it is you want.
Having done more free sessions these past two weeks than I can count, one of the first things we talked about in most of the sessions was what each person really wanted in a partner and relationship.
Since I didn't have time to write an article this week, instead I have a fun little exercise for you to do that will help you take Step #1 in manifesting your soul mate... getting really, really clear about what you want.
There are two things the Universe really loves. Clarity and inspired
action. This week we'll talk about clarity. Next week inspired
action. See below to get started... :-)
Okay, you've done lots of work on trying to manifest your soul mate.
But have you gotten clear about what you want? I mean REALLY clear.
One thing I noticed when I was dating. Even though I had made my list of the things I wanted in a partner, when I was really dating a lot, I got even clearer. Partially because I was also discovering a lot about what I didn't want. But that just made it easier to know what I DID want. :-)
So, although you may have made your list of what you want in a partner before, I'm going to ask you to do it again this week.
And here's what I want you to do differently...
I want you to make a list of 100 things you want in a partner and in your relationship.
Now 100 things may seem like a lot, but there are a number of things I think we often forget to include when we're making out list.
So answer these questions and I think it will help...
=> First, describe your ideal partner. What qualities would you like him to have... physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually? What kind of behavior, values and morals would you like in a partner?
=> Second, describer your ideal relationship with your partner. What types of things would you like to do? How would you like the relationship to be? Do you want companionship? A playmate? A partner in life forever? A father for your children? Do you want to spend lots of time together? Or are you content with less time but more quality time when you are together?
=> Third, and perhaps most importantly, how do you want to feel in this relationship and with your partner? How do you want to be? Do you want to feel cherished, adored and treasured? Is it important that you feel respected, appreciated and supported?
Really take some time to think about how you want to feel in this relationship because it is our feelings that attract what we want more than anything else.
If you can get clear about what you want and then step into the feeling of what it would be like to have it, you'll attract it... as long as you really feel inside that you deserve it.
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